

Okay, so let's jump in and reveal the 7 secret tips to what men like in bed: Secret Tip 1: He likes it when you laugh. But it's what you bring to the relationship in your attitude and your heart that makes him stay. Sure, go ahead and try to make yourself think that your hoo-hoo is magical, but I'll tell you right now, it ain't. If he's so easily swayed by the scent of "eau de bedroom" - by that other girl's easy sex - then your relationship would not have lasted anyway. If it's for real, he will have no trouble waiting.Īgain, I get a lot of emails from women that feel that if they don't give it up quick, some other woman will move in and steal him away. Look, if it takes 5 dates to get comfortable, then you need to hold to your own limit. One woman I dated for about 6 months told me after the "magical" date that she had worn her black knee-high boots because she wanted to "seal the deal." But it was a boundary I stuck to for a reason. Most of the time, this only made them want to seduce ME even sooner. In fact, she might just have to wait a few MORE dates to jump in the sack, because I'm not in a rush. When I was actively dating, I made it a point to let the woman know that I don't adhere to timelines or expectations. And that seems to me more like a negotiated settlement than a natural way to handle your relationship. There's something you should know first: If you are on date number 3 - that does NOT mean you need to sleep with him.Ī lot of women (and men) think that there's this unwritten contract out there that if you make it to Date #3 you have to give it up. Well, Tina - if you're looking for a super wild sex tip that will rock his world. Since I'm expecting that we're probably going to sleep together, what I want to know is what he expects from me. I've been dating this guy for a few weeks (we're on official date number 3 this weekend.) I recently received this email from a student of mine:


This article is for any woman who wonders what men like in bed - because you want to please him, right?
